jimwilliam wrote:
The Goth and tatoos on teens doesn't bother me too much, Sooz. I don't see it as a lot different from prechers and sociologists predicting the end of civilization when kids started growing long hair and wearing bell bottoms. The vast, vast majority of them will outgrow it and turn into accountants.
I agree on this. It's just the way they dress to annoy their parents. Chances are that if it didn't get a reaction from adults, they would do something different. I think every teen goes through some form of testing the limits of their individuality in roughly the same way all their friends do. [img]/domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/wink.gif[/img] I would try to discourage them from doing anything permanent on a juvenile whim, like the myriad piercings and tattoos (if they still like it when older, then that is their choice to make, but most will end up regretting being permanently marked with their teenage fad).
I also think a lot of adults give children too little credit for understanding the difference between reality and make-believe. The vast majority are even suspicious of Santa and the Tooth Fairy once they've reached school age, but still enjoy playing along, or haven't quite decided yet but are working on it.