I think it's horrible for any parent to have to be away from their kids, regardless of occupation, whether it be people in the military or entertainers or politicians or whatever.
i think it is pretty much wrong, and i have a hard time finding sympathy for it. but i understand that lots of people do it with varying degrees of success. i think what makes this case more puzzling is that we are not talking about one kid being left with a loving parent. we are talking about six.
furthermore, my son wanted little to do with me before he turned two, so i DO think that Ms. Palin has a higher obligation as a mother of a special needs infant. but then again, my son would not bottlefeed, and had no use of his left arm as an infant, so that my just be my own hangup. perhaps in other families, the infant children glom onto dad just fine. i didn't have that experience, so perhaps you are right. maybe i am projecting here.
I do NOT think you would have asked the same question of a man.
i am sorry you think so little of me. i know a lot of men in the entertainment business who do exactly this thing, and i consider them miserable failures as fathers. i also think they are missing out, because there is nothing more amazing than watching an infant grow up. and you can't get that one back. but you can be a rock star at age 70, if you live right.
Her husband would leave for extended periods of time to do his job. I believe one of the siblings is risking his life overseas right now. I'm sure she would love to be able to take care of him at home. I don't understand your need to keep repeating out of wedlock.
it was not a need, it was a desire. are you asking me why i stated it? it is because i think if she were more present in that home, less focused on being some sort of savior for the GOP or the religious right or whatever she is, however she thinks of herself, she might have been able to give some helpful discouragement, if you know what i mean. and no, that is really none of my business. it is just part of the fascination, and something that makes me very sad for her.
So, would I do it, nope. Will I judge her for doing it, nope.
then you are a better person than i. i might feel differently if she didn't spend so much time shaming others. but should i follow that example? probably not.
There are a lot of people who do even worse and see their kids so much less. Guess you're equally pissed at them?
you betcha. ultimately, i don't give two s(*ts about Sarah Palin. she has no more impact on me than the prime minister of Swaziland. there are people much closer to me that are detached fathers, and for them i have a special seething rage that borders on pure hatred. mostly Ms. Palin is just puzzling and amusing- and also a bit sad.
Edit to make a comment. Mac when you dice and slice my posts the way you do, I never can tell whether you read the whole post through first. That can make a big difference. Thanksi am not exactly sure what you are saying- but i try to treat responses like a dialogue, so i can respond to specific points. would you rather i just didn't reply? i won't if you wish.