After years of suffering with the burning of a dipilatory, I did some resarch. It's amazing to find out that a lot of models and even Marilyn Monroe shave(d) their faces.
The myth of coarser, darker, more abundant re-growth is just that. A myth. Perpetuated by the beauty industry to get us to buy the expensive products, go to a salon for expensive treatments and generally make them money. The hairs feel coarser because they haven't been sitting on your face, being softened by cleansing and rubbing on pillow cases.
I finally bit the bullet. Shaved my upper lip. OMG, how I wish I had done it years ago when I first started removing that growth! I can do it daily, if I feel the need. 5 seconds, literally. It's done! No burning, or accidental chapped lip edges and no waiting 10 minutes.....blah blah blah. I apply a rich cream after to soothe any irritation, although I really haven't had any that I know of.
I advise anyone to do it.
I am going to refrain from "fuzz" removal on the rest of my face for a few years. Although, dermatologists recommend it! It's a great exfoilation techniques.
However, since I don't wear any makeup, I'm not worried about any foundation or powder sticking to those tiny, fuzzy hairs and making them more apparent.
It's nice to be free from the chemical crap. Really.