Today was day 1 of my challenge ~
Jalisa is a pretty, sweet, friendly 9yo ~ very petite ~ she showed no anxiety that I was sitting in and by afternoon we were pals ~ we worked with the spec ed teacher this morning, where I mostly observed ~ since our afternoon session was longer, we repeated the morning lessons and then went a bit further ~ we worked on the sounds of basic letter combinations [tr, ly, an, ou, etc] and then sight words ~ we also spent time on simple math, beginning with addition ~ I think [and reported before I left school] that I see some signs of either dyslexia or another learning disability ~ for example we used a grid with numbers from 1 - 100, 10 across/10 down ~ each of the 3 times [over maybe an hour] I asked her to point out 41, she pointed to 14 ~ she didn't show those signs during the letter/word practice ~ she has virtually no retention ~ she's okay while we're repeating, but if we come back to a word or problem an hour later she has no memory of it ~ she does not know her phone number or address ~ and yet her vocabulary is at or above her age ~
There are still many unanswered questions, but mom is meeting with the spec ed teacher, our social worker, and our principal on Friday ~ according to the spec ed teacher, Jalisa's IEP, which was done at the beginning of this school year at her former school, is a bad joke ~ so generic and vague it could apply to almost any child ~ by law here, a parent or guardian must request further testing and our "team" will encourage mom to do so ~
I wrote up 5 addition problems and showed her how to use the grid to get the right answer ~ she promised to bring me the answers on Thursday ~ we'll see ~
Sadly, Jalisa recognizes she is "different" ~ and is embarrassed ~ but we talked about everyone being different and I think/hope she felt better about herself ~ again, we'll see ~
I need a nap ~
Sooz