green apple tree wrote:
You know, one of the ongoing problems with this site (as much as i love it and the people in it) is that we all have similar views on certain issues, which causes two things. ONe, it's hard to have a good discussion when all anyone has to say is "yes, i agree, thumbs up", and two , anyone coming in with a different view tends to get piled on and quit.
I don't agree with Jim on feminist issues. But I will defend his right to (politely and appropriately) express them, as well as everyone else. This discussion is coming dangerously close to a kind of social censorship. I want Jim to feel welcome to express his views and the reasons behind them, so that I can understand them better. For one reason, he's not alone in those views, and I want to understand why bright educated men sometimes fall into this camp.
My opinion,anyway.
I would agree with you. The problem is the discussion has happened before and jim played Rush Limbaugh calling any women who thought perhaps men should be taught not to rape feminazis and such. He did the same kind of thing this time. Was he trying to censor sooz when he insulted her? My first post was rather benign. The second one gave him as much respect for his views as he was giving to those of us who disagree wth him. Are we supposed to draw straws on who gets to post to him on feminist issues so it doesn't appear to be piling on? I would love for hm to actually explain his views instead of parroting right wing bs on feminism. Does he even acknowledge that rape is a problem and domestic abuse against women is a problem? Most of the women he has insulted in this group have acknowledged that abuse against men is also wrong.
BTW, I sometimes have views on here that go against the crowd. t does make for more interesting discussion, but only if both sides actually respond to points made by the other side.
That's my opinion.