Things have changed in VoC today.

Bump for those who may not have seen this.

This is a grim reminder that we will all die eventually. So many of us in here are older it could happen sooner rather than later. So, my point is that we should all have a "proxy" who can at least post something in here if/when that happens. Before my surgery, I made sure my hubby had my user name and password to my accounts. It's very difficult if someone just disappears. I have "known" sooz since 9/11 and many of you for almost as long. We have become part of each other's lives, however peripheral.

I agree roseanne- -I had given my son my info about the board as I have had a disappearance before on a board, and it is an awful feeling not knowing. The only thing I have to change is the direct contact - it was sooz