( why do I feel like I'm perpetually posting peeves?)
My mom bought my kiddo a bunch of school clothes over the summer ( thanks mom!). Three were sets in different colors/patterns-pants, tops, and cute little coordinating sheer scarves with metallic threads. (Each shirt actually has a little loop at the back of the neck for the scarf, so it can't fall off and get lost.)
She's happily worn these outfits through two marking periods, of course taking the little scarf off for gym.
*Yesterday* the asst. principal reads her the riot act about "scarves are against the dress code" and makes her march back to her locker and stash it, because it "represents a potential danger/choking hazard". The dress code does mention outwear "coats hats and scarves" not to be worn in school-okay. But these are clearly NOT scarves for warmth. lol Whatever-fine-she won't wear them from now on.
But I am peeved that she wore them for half the school year and nothing was said. Further, I'm hard pressed to find any incident of a middle school student in the USA ever having been harmed by a scarf, intentionally or unintentionally. I see a 5 year old Nova Scotia kid caught her scarf while going down a slide on the playground. There are no slides in middle school. Of course, you wouldn't wear anything loose around your neck in, say, shop class. But we don't have shop.
If scarves are "dangerous", shouldn't we ban pens/pencils/plastic utensils in the lunchroom too? Someone could stab themselves or take an eye out! And those lockers? My kid got whomped in the head by the metal door to the top section on the second day of school! Better remove all the doors too-fingers can and have been crushed! And there's steps to the second floor-and I know kids who have turned ankles on 'em-a hazard! LMAO