Just making up for Oscar's thread on wives. [img]/domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/wink.gif[/img]
I counted shoes...I do have more than 10 pairs...eek! Though 3 are sneakers (this is standard for me, one good pair for walking around when "out," one somewhat worn, dirtier pair for working around the house/yard, and ones that any other normal person would send to the trash bin get saved for farm work and THEN go to the trash bin). I also have three pairs of comfy but really ugly shoes. They weren't bought for appearances, they were bought for work, where I spend long hours on my feet and need closed toe shoes, and after about the first hour standing, most every other seemingly comfortable pair of shoes decides it wasn't made for such work and starts to pinch my toes. So, while I do wear the ugly shoes once in a while, like on rainy days, mostly they sit in the closet waiting for the current ugly pair to wear out, at which time I'll toss them and replace with another. I just had such a hard time finding comfortable shoes to wear that I bought more than one pair when I finally found ones that didn't leave me with sore feet and knees after a full day standing in the labs. Then the rest are nicer shoes for the times I'm not in the lab (I change out of lab shoes when I leave the lab, so keep them at work). One pair of black flats and one pair of brown flats I can wear with both slacks for work or jeans on weekends, one pair of dressier shoes that is a gradient of black to gray that matches the slightly dressier work outfits. I have a pair of canvas sandals for summer casual wear (but nice enough to wear with a sundress as well as shorts). A very dressy pair of flats that are gold (school colors are gold and blue and sometimes for special university events, I dress in my blue suit with those gold shoes). I have the obligatory frivolous purchase of a pair of red shoes lined with fleece (they feel like wearing slippers...I wear those on the cold winter days when I'd rather be home), and then two pairs of strappy high heels for super-dress-up occassions, like weddings...those are actually dance shoes, one in black and one in tan, so I can match any dress I wear and have shoes I can dance in all night. Someone else can do the counting.
Regardless of how many shoes I have, my boyfriend has more (and yes, I've checked under the hood, he's not gay). He has a compulsion for expensive suits and every expensive suit has a matching pair of expensive shoes. Other than the two pairs of dancing shoes that will last me a very long time and are of sufficient quality to repair with new soles if they wear out, most of my shoes cost under $30, and all the rest are under $50. My boyfriend would not blink at spending $300 on a pair of shoes! What he'll spend on one suit, I'll spend on an entire wardrobe. Though, neither of us does "therapeutic shopping." Neither of us likes shopping at all. We both head to stores knowing there's something we want or need and that's all we buy once there, and get out as quickly as possible...his price range is just way higher than mine.
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