Bfly and Jim, I wish you both every happinesss possible. No event is complete without music. As im not really a close friend or relation, I would like to offer to you both, some musical selections for the Ceremony and the Reception. Being a person with an insatiable love of fine lyrics, and I believe some talent at picking appropriately profound music choices to speak volumes. Your music should be special and particular to you two, not some over used wedding music. To give you some idea of how i think, here are a couple i would suggest, if I am so empowered by you to work on this part of the wedding. This seems perfect for the first dance of the rest of your joined lives.
now here is one perfect for the ceremony either when you walk down the aisle or possibly back up the aisle at the end
K.D. Lang - Once In A While[url=http://s0.ilike.com/play#k.d.+lang:Once+In+A+While:72403280:s29447898.8354085.11371814.0.2.37%2Cstd_34141f2781644f3cbbc1e31ca2424b7e]Oh by the way if you dont like my selections just say Yuck and I will stop LOL