sooz08 wrote:
It's jim's call whether or not to lock April out of this board for the time being ~ I really do NOT want her to feel she was kicked out for some reason ~ but you make another good point, pic ~
HEY JIM ~ are we plotting the REAL or the CYBER proposal? ~ it's easy to change the names in my #1 post ~
Sooz We're talking the cyber proposal, Sooz. The real proposal never even really happened. It was just decided. Actually, I knew from about the second day after I met her that I was going to marry her. The only question was and is, when. It was only recently, though, that we got away from the "when your 85" stuff and made up our minds it was going to happen.
While I want all of us to have fun doing this, don't take it too lightly. This group and CE11 have played a big part in our romance and relationship and we consider a lot of the members to be real friends - friends we may never meet but friends nonetheless and important to us. Cyber weddings don't meet the criteria of being "legal" but then being "legal" isn't what makes you married either. It's what is in your hearts and the commitment you make to each other that make the marriage stick. When we get that far, the "I do's" we say will be as heartfelt and binding as if they were said in front of a JP or Minister.
Judging from her post in the introductory thread, it's a bit late to accidentally have a glitch that keeps her out of here for a few days. It doesn't matter, anyway, because she doesn't know when or how the proposal is going to come. I just hope she says "yes".