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PostPosted: 04/13/10 11:49 am • # 1 
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Things have been getting much too serious lately - both here and on the other place whose name darest not be mentioned.  I thought maybe we could lighten it up a bit with a little fun - actually it comes from a suggestion Kathy made to April in chat awhile back.

Here's the deal.  Most of you know that Butterfly4you (April) and I (Jim) are a couple.  Most of you also know that we cyberly met a couple of years ago in the other group on what we call "The Castle" thread which not so slowly progressed from trading a few jokes, to mild flirtation, to not so mild flirtation all the way to soft porn.  You have also probably figured out that our real life relationship progressed in much the same way.  In fact, a few of you kept her busy and grounded in chat last year while I travelled to Hamilton for a real life visit.  We actually met for the first time a year ago this coming Thursday - April 15th. Last November she moved to Vancouver to be with me - lucky me!

What's really strange about the whole thing is that we have discovered April and Jim are very different and distinct from Butterfly and Jimwilliam.  So much so, that we almost consider them a whole different couple with entirely different personalities (Jimwilliam doesn't snore in bed, for example, and Butterfly has never had PMS). 

Now, fairly recently, April and I decided to become engaged and, when the stars align themselves properly, get married. That made us - well, me anyway - April can speak for herself - very happy - but it left that other couple, Butterfly and Jimwilliam out in the cold.  It might seem a bit schizophrenic, but it just doesn't seem right for April and Jim to take the plunge and leave Butterfly and Jimwilliam to wander the roads of singledom.  So, I have decided that Jimwilliam and Butterfly, our cyber alter egos, should get cyber married - and that's where you guys come in. 

What I (and, later on, Butterfly, assuming she says "yes") intend to do is to start a series of threads where we can all have fun getting Butterfly and Jimwilliam cyber married.  If she says "no" it will probably be a short series of threads.  I've checked and there's actually websites telling you how to arrange and hold a cyber wedding.  At the end of the day you guys, as our cyber friends, will all be invited to the ceremony. 

Now, the first thread I am going to start, is to enlist your aid in figuring out the best way for Jimwilliam to propose to Butterfly4you.

 



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PostPosted: 04/13/10 12:07 pm • # 2 
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                   YAY!!!

How totally awesome ~ best news in ages ~ I am thrilled for both of you ~ and we'd be ABSOLUTELY DELIGHTED if you allowed us to "host" your cyber wedding, jim ~

OH ... GOODY!!!

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Thanks, sooz.  We were wondering how you would feel about it.  Now, give me some proposal ideas in the other thread then.


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 1:08 pm • # 4 
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Wow, wow, wow!!!!!!

This should be really fun!!!!

Congrats and more congrats!!!!!!!


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 2:27 pm • # 5 
 How heartwarming. I am happy and thrilled for you both !!!!


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 3:17 pm • # 6 
Now, the first thread I am going to start, is to enlist your aid in figuring out the best way for Jimwilliam to propose to Butterfly4you.

ohhh myyy!! ha ha ...well you could always just come right out and ask me Jim!ImageImage......and it won't be necessary to "get me drunk" (re other thread) ha ha..(a few of our friends here probably remember me drinking ameratto and coffee as they kept me company on here, while I very anxioiusly waited for your plane to arrive in Ontario last year)...we joked about how happy you would be to see a drunk female in a tight black dress and I should slow down before you arrived.. 
What very sweet thoughtful thread/s to see just getting in from work! Honey, I Butterfly/April love you  all the way through and know you are the love of my life as I did from the beginning.
As you mentioned we have considered ourselves engaged although its hard to put a date on exactly when that happened..but I think it was on the last day of your first visit to Ontario last year when I wanted the inexpensive ring at the Harmony store in the mall...and you bought it and  put it on my engagement finger. Then I bought one for you too without you knowing and put in on your finger after breaky in the restaurant..about April 20th. You already know, that ring is and will always be.. the real life cherished one to me.
 I think it would be a great idea to get cyberly married on this forum, maybe we could move the thread to general? so anyone could access it but I'll post our real life pics on this thread for privacy reasons. Honey I don't think that Jim William and Butterfly are much different at all than the real us at all....and beleive me Butterfly can get heavy duty pms too ha ha...(those would be my deleted posts), but either way I want you to know that my whole world changed from the moment we echanged our first email and later talked on the phone, and have no dought that there was a greater force working on us meeting and being together

I have a few ideas that I'd like ...but Jim William, before we do anything... you first have to come right out and ask me  online ok...ohhh and before I forgetImage ha ha... also have a (nice, sparkley, shiny and extremely expensive!) ring on hand too : ) I love you!ImageImage

ps- good thing I check this board regularly...umm before I got blocked out...ha ha...I love you guys!!!!!!
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PostPosted: 04/13/10 3:26 pm • # 7 
How very wonderful. I am so happy for the both/four of you. This will be interesting to watch.


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 3:59 pm • # 8 
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LMAO ~ well ... damn, B'fly!

I truly think it's wonderful ~ if you want me to move thread and/or the other one, it only takes a couple of clicks ~ just let me know ~

I really am so happy for you both ~ Image

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PostPosted: 04/13/10 4:05 pm • # 9 
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BTW, I think we should have the cyber wedding in a massive chat ~ you can invite anyone you want [ahem ~ yes, I said you can invite anyone you want] ~ they won't have to join to come into chat ~

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PostPosted: 04/13/10 4:27 pm • # 10 
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Cool on both, Sooz.  Move the threads to General.  We might even pick up some new worthwhile members (note the adjective).  Offering "Chat" for the ceremony is great, especially since there are a few people we would like to invite who don't belong here.  Thank you.


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 11:36 pm • # 11 
Now we just have to figure out how to decorate the Chat room.  Maybe Jabra or FF could help out with that?


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 11:40 pm • # 12 
Sooz, if you are going to move these threads to General, best make them featured or stickies so those from that other group, who Jimwilliam and Butterfly want in attendance at the wedding, can see them right away.


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PostPosted: 04/13/10 11:40 pm • # 13 
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glitterypickles539 wrote:
Now we just have to figure out how to decorate the Chat room.  Maybe Jabra or FF could help out with that?

I'd just hang 538 glittery pickles all over the place and one in April's hands, and call it a day. Image


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 2:35 am • # 14 
Well, LOL, Butterfly already beat me to it. I was going to suggest you could just send her in here to read your posts. [img]/domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/happy.gif[/img] How fun! The best part about a cyber wedding...no ugly bridesmaid dresses! [img]/domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/happy.gif[/img]


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 3:16 am • # 15 
Yeah... and I can show up in my bathrobe while swizzling coffee.


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 3:19 am • # 16 
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 Image How fun! The best part about a cyber wedding...no ugly bridesmaid dresses! Image

Wrong!  It'll be up to Butterfly to choose, of course, but I was thinking the Bridesmaids could wear one of these:

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PostPosted: 04/14/10 3:23 am • # 17 
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LMAO, jim ~ the blue "creations" at the top are making me rethink this ~ Image

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I thought there was a law or something that said bridesmaids dresses had to be ugly - probably a law invented by brides.


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 3:29 am • # 19 
You will NOT find me in that "tux" at the bottom!


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 3:45 am • # 20 
I respectfully refuse to serve as a bridesmaid if I have to wear any of those outfits!  Just being a guest, eating the food and swilling the booze will be fine with me.  By the way, what kind of vittles should we have at this swanky affair?


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 4:43 am • # 21 
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Cyber vittles ... cyber spirits ... cyber gifts ... cyber announcement ... cyber invite ~ WHEN ~ all questions to be answered ~ Image

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PostPosted: 04/14/10 11:58 am • # 22 
Congratulations, jim and Butterfly! 

Who would have guessed that true love could be spawned by CEII?


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 12:23 pm • # 23 
Well JimWilliam- Here ya are picking out bridesmaids dresses??.. ha ha.... and you  havn't even asked me yet? Image 

I could'nt resist checking out a few "potential" cyber  wedding dresses for the heck of itImage and thought this was kinda cute (would compliment the black see throughs for the bridesmaids if we decided to go that directionImage) I already have an idea on who I'd like to choose for the maid of honor and an idea on who I'd like to "cyberly give me away"Image

Anyway, while im hmm.... patiently waiting.................. ... what do you think of this dress to give me an idea,... but it would need a veil tooImage

All my LoveImage Butterfly/April

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PostPosted: 04/14/10 4:32 pm • # 24 
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Butterfly4you wrote:
Well JimWilliam- Here ya are picking out bridesmaids dresses??.. ha ha.... and you  havn't even asked me yet? Image 

I could'nt resist checking out a few "potential" cyber  wedding dresses for the heck of itImage and thought this was kinda cute (would compliment the black see throughs for the bridesmaids if we decided to go that directionImage) I already have an idea on who I'd like to choose for the maid of honor and an idea on who I'd like to "cyberly give me away"Image

Anyway, while im hmm.... patiently waiting.................. ... what do you think of this dress to give me an idea,... but it would need a veil tooImage

All my LoveImage Butterfly/April

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Gulp!!!  Now that's what I call incentive!  I'd better get a move on.
  


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PostPosted: 04/14/10 5:24 pm • # 25 
Woooooo Hoooooo!!!

I knew it. Image 
I KNEW ImageIT!!!!!

hee hee hee.....after the first couple of "Pool Games" took off, I had no doubt.
Well, y'all know I'm sittin' here with one of the biggest, bestest, sweetest, smiles I've had in sometime.
My heart is just is so full right now, I just wanna REACH THROUGH THIS PUTER and HUG the DICKENS right out of you both. Congrats from me!! YIPEEEEEEImage



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